Spiritan Friends
- Posted On 16th Oct 2026
Dear parishioners!
What order are our priests?
You guessed right - Spiritans
How many of you like Fr. Francis and Fr. Arinze?
Great!
Now how many of you would like to be friends of Father Francis and Father Arinze?
This tells me only one thing: that you are happy to be friends of the Spiritans!
Now let’s compare what being a normal friend is with being a Spiritan Friend, one of what they call Lay Spiritan Associates. Look at your screens (the table below is displayed) Here's a table comparing a normal friendship with Spiritan Friends. Their friendship is often influenced by shared values, faith, and spiritual practices.
Foundation
Normal Friendship
Based on mutual interests, personal connection, and common activities.
Spiritan Friends
Rooted in shared faith, spiritual values, and Spiritan ideals (charisms).
SPIRITUALITY
Normal Friendship
May or may not involve spiritual discussions or practices.
Spiritan Friends
Central to the relationship, often involving prayer, spiritual growth, and shared mission.
Purpose
Normal Friendship
Primarily about companionship, fun, and mutual support.
Spiritan Friends
Focused on supporting the Spiritan mission in Canada, growing together in faith and supporting each other in spiritual and community life.
Guidance
Normal Friendship
Informal guidance based on personal experience or advice.
Spiritan Friends
Ongoing formation and spiritual guidance come from Spiritan religious teachings, including the writings of the Spiritan Founders, Scripture, the Guide for Lay Spiritan Associates, and community reflection and prayer.
Activities
Normal Friendship
Hanging out, sports, movies, social events, etc.
Spiritan Friends
Prayer, religious events, retreats, volunteering, or community service based on the Spiritan Charism and in various forms of support for Spiritan ministries as required.
Emotional Support
Normal Friendship
Offering advice or support in personal or life challenges.
Spiritan Friends
Support is also spiritual, helping friends in their faith journey and personal struggles.
How much time is expected
Normal Friendship
Good friends – spend more.
Flexible
Special occasions
Regular
Spiritan Friends
The flexibility makes it accessible for people with various time constraints, and the level of involvement can be tailored to your availability and willingness.
What's in it for me
Normal Friendship
Friends for life
Spiritan Friends
Friends for life, through both moments of celebration and times of adversity.
Make a positive impact in the world
Spiritual and intellectual growth
Sense of Purpose and Meaning
Connection to a Global Spiritan Community
